Kim Wilde: I’m proud I have survived with my sense of humour intact

Singer, songwriter, radio host, mother, landscape gardener and extraterrestrial enthusiast Kim Wilde has had the most varied of careers. Alex Green speaks to the Kids In America star ahead of her upcoming greatest hits tour.

She might be best known for her trademark blow-dried blonde mullet and releasing a string of decade-defining hits during the 80s but these days, you are more likely to find Kim Wilde at home, tending to her garden or penning songs about offbeat subjects such as extraterrestrial life.

The pop singer and new wave darling, who turns 60 in November, is living her best years, having balanced chart success with a happy family life.

Speaking down the phone from the Hertfordshire home she shares with her actor husband Hal Fowler, not far from where her 50s rock icon father Marty Wilde lives, she sounds sprightly, despite suffering the remains of a seasonal cold.

“We still have our children living at home,” she explains fondly. “There is still a family life to be enjoyed. I’m enjoying every minute that is left before they fly the nest.

“I have modified my work as a result, but I have always been a home girl and I love being here. I love being in the garden. I love hanging out with my husband and my kids.”

Wilde and Fowler, who met as co-stars in The Who’s rock and roll musical Tommy, share two children, Harry who was born in 1998, and Rose who was born in 2000.

But despite marital bliss, the call of the road is never far away.

This is especially true since the release of Wilde’s punky, beguiling Here Come The Aliens – her 14th record, in 2018. The album, which indulged her belief in extraterrestrial life (she claims she saw a UFO in 2009), peaked at number 21 in the charts.

It prompted a second wind for the music career she had put on ice to pursue landscape gardening and presenting slots on the BBC, Channel 4 and Magic Radio.

“There is this irresistible lure to get out there and do what we do with our band and play our songs,” she adds. “It’s really exciting to play, because the audience make it that way. They enjoy it more and more each year. I think they are probably relieved I haven’t popped my clogs,” she adds with a sharp giggle.

Recent chart success has added a new lease of life to Wilde’s sets. Newer songs such as Kandy Krush and Pop Don’t Stop sit alongside her ubiquitous 1981 debut single Kids In America, covers and other 80s hits. Later this year she will embark on a greatest hits tour, including a Belfast date, and revisiting those songs has led her down memory lane.

“The greatest hits is taking me, personally, on a journey that I haven’t gone down for a while,” she reflects. “I very rarely sit around and examine my legacy and my past, or listen to my old songs. And that has been a really emotional journey, going back and knowing how my life panned out, side by side with those songs. It brings back lots of memories for me. I am proud that somehow I have survived with my sense of humour intact. I have never taken myself too seriously as a performer. I take what I do very seriously, but I don’t take myself too seriously at all – or anybody else for that matter.”

Raised in London, Wilde has experienced her fair share of ups and downs. Highs like supporting David Bowie and Michael Jackson on tour were matched by lows like parting ways from her record label after her third album Catch As Catch Can sold poorly. With 40 years of industry experience, Wilde says she has always turned to the music when things got tough.

“It doesn’t matter whether you had a hit record or not, music is a career that can sustain you throughout life,” she explains. “Maybe not financially, but it will always feed your soul. If you love music, it will never let you down. That’s how I loved music when I started. I have been fortunate and it has been very good to me. But I think for a lot of people who are drawn to fame for other reasons, then they can quickly disappear down a rabbit hole. We have seen that happen in the press many times, with people lured by bright lights and the promise of fame and fortune. It can all end in tears.”

Wilde also recently gave up the booze and cigarettes, joining her 80-year-old father who kicked both habits some years ago. She is eager to explain how ditching nicotine has “massively improved” her voice.

“I was smoking when my career first began. Dad stopped that and neither of us drink now,” she recalls. “That’s quite an interesting thing to talk about, alcohol, but we won’t go there now,” she says, before nevertheless going there. That is an incredible thing… The way that alcohol is so accepted in the profession. It doesn’t have to be that way.”

Touring with Alice Cooper in 2014 only reinforced Wilde’s views, as she saw the 71-year-old veteran shock rocker’s boundless energy on and off stage.

“That’s an incredibly cool thing to do,” she says admiringly. “He looked great. He had a huge amount of energy. He and his wife were touring constantly around the world. Some of the coolest rock stars I have been working with or observing in recent years, all of them have come to the same conclusion – that alcohol is no friend to a performer, or anyone, in fact.”

Wilde has made sacrifices for the life she now lives, giving up her presenting to focus on her family and music. But after four decades in show business, she has no regrets.

“Some things have to go,” she says. “Now I have more time to walk the dogs and have a normal life.”

Kim Wilde will perform at Boucher Playing Fields, Belfast, on August 1 as part of 80s music festival Let’s Rock Belfast